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191-Being Too Picky Looking for a Filipina Will be Costly

191-Being Too Picky Looking for a Filipina Will be Costly

January 27, 2022

There is so much to say about the idea of being too picky that I simply could not do it in one video so I am continuing that idea here today. While you can’t get to the Philippines as a tourist yet, let’s be prepared for when that does happen.

Here are six additional ways of being too picky. If you are older, I think you’ll need to be less picky than someone who is much younger. Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea for considerations when looking for a Filipina wife and mostly, how to have a good marriage and stay married. We’ve been married for over six and a half years.

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Questions to ask playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8o9Y7bE7gAFnDvCj7c8Z-TWHjtOaly-C

Chemistry https://youtu.be/-WMt5XXs4YU

190-Why You Shouldn’t Be Too Picky Choosing a Filipina to Marry

190-Why You Shouldn’t Be Too Picky Choosing a Filipina to Marry

January 24, 2022

Men from all over the world have sought to marry a Filipina due to her beauty and more traditional values, myself being one of them. At some point, we have to pull the trigger and decide on the lucky one, but that can be agonizing. Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea, where I’d like to help men who are where I used to be, by sharing what I have learned about seeking, finding, and living with a Filipina wife. I have four ways of pickiness today to share with you, and more in a subsequent podcast because there are a lot of ways to be too picky.

International dating presents a problem, albeit a good one, that is lacking with US sites for example, and that is that the women in the Philippines actually want to get married! Whereas it is difficult to get any attention on the US sites, internationally you actually will have options and have to make a choice. That’s good right? Yes, but the problem is how to decide on the finalists, and how to pick the winner. I will link a playlist on internet dating for you to learn about this process with a Filipina, so that in today’s podcast I can focus on being too picky.

I have gone to the store and stood there looking at all the different types of toothpaste, thinking why can’t I make up my mind, they’re all good, just pick one. It is much more challenging when confronted with the task of narrowing down a list of quality Filipinas. A guy should be selective, just not too picky, because that will hinder his progress and use up time that could be spent petitioning this woman from the Philippines to be his wife.

Assuming a person’s “must haves” have been met, here are some thoughts on why a man might be too picky and what he can do about it.

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Internet dating playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8o9Y7bE7gAEFqvFM7pOwCJQuyPdvK5sH

Questions to ask playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8o9Y7bE7gAFnDvCj7c8Z-TWHjtOaly-C

Chemistry https://youtu.be/-WMt5XXs4YU

189-Can You Be Your Filipina’s Hero? Here are 4 Possible Ways

189-Can You Be Your Filipina’s Hero? Here are 4 Possible Ways

January 21, 2022

There are two ways to look at this question.  One is can you be a hero to your Filipina and the other is Can YOU be your Filipina’s hero. The line about heroics comes up now and then and I wanted to talk about that today with four possible ways.  Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea for all kinds of talk about foreigner and Filipina relationships, to help those men thinking about pursuing a Filipina. 

Can you be a hero to your Filipina?-Do men want to be a hero to a Filipina? I should restrict my comments to those men who sincerely want a Filipina for the right reasons and want to marry them. In order to be hero, often in the movies it is a single act of heroism, that defines one as being a hero. It might have involved more than a little time, but the sentiment is someone is a hero now.

Here is how I define what this hero concept is all about.  I think it is about a man wanting to marry a Filipina and give her the type of life she isn’t likely to have if she does not marry a foreigner.

Laying the Foundation of your Filipina marriage Playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8o9Y7bE7gAHAUHXbKwu4EhEVdv55vO74

Help with Harmony Playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8o9Y7bE7gAGcbSIxRet92fOtSeYRVOf-

How to earn your Filipina wife’s respect Playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL8o9Y7bE7gAFFKSKBlxZh1gwNdLagWqf0

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Who is the prize, the foreigner or the Filipina? https://youtu.be/nhOkxWwK10Y

188-Things Men Find Unattractive about Women that Filipina’s Don’t Do

188-Things Men Find Unattractive about Women that Filipina’s Don’t Do

January 17, 2022

I came across an article I will share with you in the description box, called 10 things men find unattractive about women. It made me think, what do men usually say about Filipinas, women from the Philippines? If you are looking for a beautiful Filipina, Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea where I give insights I have learned, since being married to my Filipina wife since May of 2015. I will list the unattractive features mentioned in the article, and supply my observations regarding Filipinas.

A disclaimer for this-You must find a Filipina with character in order to have a successful marriage. I have mentioned this before in other podcasts. Many of us are smitten by the lovely charm of a Filipina. See if you agree with the points in the linked article.

http://wmnlife.com/beauty-fashion/10-things-men-find-unattractive/10

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187-Your Money Isn’t Enough For a Filipina

187-Your Money Isn’t Enough For a Filipina

January 10, 2022

This is a series called Straight talk to western men about Filipinas. The last time I talked about the man’s requirement, in my opinion, to support his Filipina wife’s family either by allowing her to work to send money home to them, or by offering to help himself. Today I will continue in that vein with a topic called Your money isn’t enough for a Filipina.  Please subscribe to Casting Beyond. I want to help a foreign man to be equipped to pursue a Filipina for marriage.

I want to be honest with the men about things they might have heard, some of which are from disgruntled guys and are naturally going to have a negative connotation. I have been married to a Filipina since May 10, 2015 and continue to learn about my wife and Philippine culture.

I hope if you saw the last video to this series, that you understand where I am coming from.  Having said that, I hope it isn’t a startling revelation that your money isn’t enough to coast through a relationship with a Filipina who has left everyone and everything behind.  I will link a video in the description box called “Who is the prize, the foreigner or the Filipina?” I think it is important to respect what the Filipina experiences when she leaves the Philippines to immigrate overseas.

The reason I am making this podcast is to ensure that the foreign man doesn’t assume that he can help her family or allow her to send large amounts of money back home, then sit back and rest on his laurels.  That won’t sustain the relationship and you can take that to the bank (oops, another pun). No one wants to be seen as a money machine.  The next time someone tells you that as long as you give her the money that she wants, she will be happy with you, here is some food for thought.

She marries the foreign man that she thinks is going to be kind to her, so be kind to her. She will want you to include her in key decisions, she will want you to ask her about her day, how she is doing. It is helpful to ask her about her family and to learn their names. She will want to be allowed to learn different things by trial and error, she might even want to learn to drive, and unless there is a reason for her not to, I think she should.

Doctors Gary and Barb Rosberg surveyed over 700 couples and report these as the top needs for women in marriage. I will use this to make my point of the type of qualities that will be needed to ensure a lasting marriage.

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Who is the prize, the foreigner or the Filipina? https://youtu.be/nhOkxWwK10Y

https://www.focusonthefamily.ca/content/5-love-needs-of-men-and-women

http://www.hisneedsherneeds.com/his-needs-her-needs-list.html 

186-Monetary Help to the Filipina’s Family IS a Requirement

186-Monetary Help to the Filipina’s Family IS a Requirement

January 5, 2022

This podcast is about the frequently despised topic of sending money back home to support the Filipina’s family in the Philippines. Here, I will take the position that this is not only appropriate, but a requirement. Please subscribe to Casting Beyond the Sea and Love Beyond The Sea on YouTube for tips and advice on dating and marrying a Filipina and be sure to share this if you know someone else who has similar interests.

Someone will say “Aha, so you are admitting that the ONLY reason she married you was for your money, you’re busted!” I think it is healthy to accept that the main objective she has in marrying a foreign man is to provide help for her family who may be living in poor conditions.  That’s one side of the coin (no pun intended). Here is where the foreign man needs to be practical and unemotional. You were chosen or will be chosen, because you can help her and her family, by allowing her to work and even helping yourself. Why am I telling you this?  Isn’t this channel supposed to be encouraging men to seek and marry Filipinas?

It sure is. I am not going to sit here and say “Oh no, it is not a requirement to allow your Filipina wife to send back a good deal of her hard-earned money to help her family.”  I think it is a requirement if you are concerned about the health of your marriage! If you understand that her main objective in marrying a foreign man is to provide help for her family, then you shouldn’t have any trouble accepting that she is required to send money back home. I want you to brace for this inevitability. She also wants a nice man and is willing to bypass other options in the Philippines. Consider what you are getting with a Filipina wife.

You should know that a Filipina who has been responsible to help her family in the past, is very probably going to feel immense pressure to continue to do so, for who knows how long. You may feel strongly opposed to that familial pressure, but there is nothing you can do about it. To properly understand your wife, it is necessary to allow her to fulfil her duty to her family, because she is more or less burdened to do so. Deciding beforehand that you will not allow her to help at all would end the relationship promptly. Listen to the Podcast for more here on Love Beyond The Sea.

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185-A Filipina’s Parents Don’t Always Want Her to Marry a Foreigner

185-A Filipina’s Parents Don’t Always Want Her to Marry a Foreigner

January 2, 2022

I have started a playlist on my YouTube channel called Straight talk to western men about Filipinas to talk briefly about some aspects of a foreigner Filipina relationship that are overlooked. Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea where I have started a channel to provide encouragement and help to men seeking a relationship with a Filipina leading to marriage. You should go where you’re wanted, for me, that was the Philippines.

Have you considered how a Filipina’s parents might feel about her daughter marrying a foreigner?  It is possible that some families encourage this, which is unfair to the Filipina because she is not allowed to pursue a Filipino.  The family sees the foreigner as a way out of poverty or at least a way to put themselves in a much better position.  In this case the Filipina is being used.  Obviously, this is not a good choice for the foreign man because it isn’t of her own will and there may be more pressure than usual from her family to get money from her husband. Listen to the podcast for some reasons why you should not assume a Filipina's parents will be so willing to "let her go".

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