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Trusting my Filipina Wife with Finances-Giving her Credit

Trusting my Filipina Wife with Finances-Giving her Credit

January 23, 2021

Many guys are concerned about how much to trust their Filipina with finances.  Today I will reveal why I suggested my wife get a credit card for herself. My podcasts and videos are designed to give you help in having a serious relationship with a woman from the Philippines. Comments are always encouraged and appreciated.

I believe there should be trust, otherwise the relationship is off to a bad start. No one can know “everything” about their spouse and to some extent all you may know about the Filipina you decide to marry is what has been revealed to you, either circumstantially or verbally.  We got married very quickly but I made sure to talk to her about finances.

Money needs to be handled with extreme discretion in the Philippines. I would guess that in a family of eight, maybe only two or three are working.  Often, but not always that is the daughters.  They may have to sacrifice what they have for themselves in order to provide for momma, papa and the rest of the family. This may be of necessity but I still think highly of the woman that does this, such as my wife.  I saw it first hand when I met her the first time and married her.

I knew she handled her money situation well (she was a teacher of special needs children), but this does not necessarily illustrate how she would handle “her own” money in marriage or how she views the total money situation from the present until my passing. 

Since it is believed that money issues/disagreements are a leading factor in divorce, you want to make sure that before you marry a Filipina, you have discussed the importance of handling money properly in your marriage. The Bible says a lot about how we should handle money or our wealth.

Listen to this podcast and get an inside view of managing the need to trust your Fililipina wife in financial matters.

LIVE-Why Married Sex is Better January 21 2021

LIVE-Why Married Sex is Better January 21 2021

January 21, 2021

In this live podcast I will talk about why I believe that married sex is better than the alternative. Many people feel like sex outside the confides of marriage is the greatest thing in the world but I will share why I can not agree with that. In fact, if you really care about yourself and the other person, sex without being married is the last thing you'd want to do.  Listen to a frank talk about the virtues of limiting sex to marriage only.

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PROVERBS 5  Warning Against Adultery

1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,

turn your ear to my words of insight,

2 that you may maintain discretion

and your lips may preserve knowledge.

3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,

and her speech is smoother than oil;

4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,

sharp as a double-edged sword.

5 Her feet go down to death;

her steps lead straight to the grave.

6 She gives no thought to the way of life;

her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.

7 Now then, my sons, listen to me;

do not turn aside from what I say.

8 Keep to a path far from her,

do not go near the door of her house,

9 lest you lose your honor to others

and your dignity to one who is cruel,

10 lest strangers feast on your wealth

and your toil enrich the house of another.

11 At the end of your life you will groan,

when your flesh and body are spent.

12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!

How my heart spurned correction!

13 I would not obey my teachers

or turn my ear to my instructors.

14 And I was soon in serious trouble

in the assembly of God’s people.”

15 Drink water from your own cistern,

running water from your own well.

16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,

your streams of water in the public squares?

17 Let them be yours alone,

never to be shared with strangers.

18 May your fountain be blessed,

and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.

19 A loving doe, a graceful deer—

may her breasts satisfy you always,

may you ever be intoxicated with her love.

20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?

Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?

21 For your ways are in full view of the Lord,

and he examines all your paths.

22 The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them;

the cords of their sins hold them fast.

23 For lack of discipline they will die,

led astray by their own great folly.

Live-Why Married Sex is Better January 21 2021 6 pm Central Time

Live-Why Married Sex is Better January 21 2021 6 pm Central Time

January 21, 2021

Please join me at 6 pm Central Time Thursday January 21 2021 for a live podcast. I will talk about why I believe that married sex is better than the alternative. Many people feel like sex outside the confides of marriage is the greatest thing in the world but I will share why I can not agree with that. In fact, if you really care about yourself and the other person, sex without being married is the last thing you'd want to do.

Filipinas Are Generous Women!

Filipinas Are Generous Women!

January 18, 2021

As a man married to a Filipina, I know some things first-hand about the type of women they are. Today I will focus on the quality of generosity. Subscribe to Love Beyond The Sea on YouTube and Casting Beyond The Sea on Podbean to learn about Filipinas, who are women from the Philippines, and I will go in depth about how I think you can be the type of husband she wants and needs. Leave a comment if you can relate to the generosity of a Filipina. Visit lvbt.com, the website of all things love beyond the sea.

I will talk about the ways I see generosity in my Filipina wife, and I think that's the type of woman you want!

LIVE-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Cheat on Me January 12, 2021

LIVE-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Cheat on Me January 12, 2021

January 12, 2021

This is going to be the third of a three-part series about why my wife won’t leave me, lie to me, or cheat on me.  I will preface this by saying I am not trying to be cocky or overconfident.  I don’t like the idea of marrying someone only to live in fear of whether or not they really are in it for the long haul.  Today it will be about why my Filipina wife won’t cheat on me.

Without question, it can be in the back of a foreigner’s mind who brings a Filipina to his country to be his wife, if she will be faithful to him.  Will she succumb to someone’s sweet talk or put downs of him, and might she think she has it better with someone else?  Will her so called new friends put wrong ideas in her head?  It happens you know. 

If you have a large age gap, is it possible that she will be influenced by all the attention she might get from guys her age and cheat on you?  I don’t think there is anything wrong with being aware of this, because it has happened, but what I want to try to do with this podcast is show why I don’t think my wife will cheat on me.

Check out podcast 81 Why My Filipina Wife Won't Cheat on Me.

Live-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Cheat on Me January 12, 2021

Live-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Cheat on Me January 12, 2021

January 12, 2021

8:10 pm tonight I will start a live podcast and talk about why my Filipina wife won't cheat on me. Why would I ask such a question? Listen and find out!

Better yet, leave a comment for me to reply to or even call in. 

We can talk about things relating to marriage and relationships.

 

I hope to see you there.

Why my Filipina wife won’t lie to me

Why my Filipina wife won’t lie to me

January 10, 2021

This is going to be part of a three-part series about why my wife won’t leave me, lie to me, or cheat on me.  I will preface this by saying I am not trying to be cocky or overconfident.  I don’t like the idea of marrying someone only to live in fear of whether or not they really are in it for the long haul.  Today it will be about why my Filipina wife won’t lie to me.

I have read stories of wives doing things behind her husband’s back, not wanting him to know what they are up to.  Eventually the husband can’t trust his wife.  Here are some reasons I believe I can trust my wife to be honest with me.

 

LIVE-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Leave Me January 7 2021

LIVE-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Leave Me January 7 2021

January 7, 2021

Take your mind off of the politcal turmoil currently in America and listen to me describe many reasons why my Filipina wife won't leave me. Casting Beyond The Sea is about helping men be motivated to pursue love overseas and I will share what I have learned in that regard.

This is going to be one of a three-part series about why my wife won’t leave me, lie to me, or cheat on me.  I will preface this by saying I am not trying to be cocky or overconfident.  I don’t like the idea of marrying someone only to live in fear of whether or not they really are in it for the long haul.  One day a coworker of my wife asked her if she thought our marriage would last.  Her response was “Of course!”  She was a little taken aback by that question.

This is not to say that our marriage is perfect since nobody has a perfect marriage.  I want to explain why I am confident that as long as I am faithful to her and don’t abuse her, why I don’t think my Filipina wife will leave me.  You may feel differently about some of these, and that’s okay.  They are just some observations of mine.  

Listen to the podcast for my many ways to help protect your marriage.

LIVE-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Leave Me 07JAN21

LIVE-Why My Filipina Wife Won’t Leave Me 07JAN21

January 7, 2021

Announcing a Live Podcast at 7 pm tonight Thursday January 7, 2021 at 7 pm Central USA.

Take your mind off of the politcal turmoil currently in America and listen to me describe many reasons why my Filipina wife won't leave me. Casting Beyond The Sea is about helping men be motivated to pursue love overseas and I will share what I have learned in that regard.

Please leave a comment or call in during the live podcast.  See you there!

LIVE-How I Know I Married the Right Filipina + Filipina Finances January 6, 2021

LIVE-How I Know I Married the Right Filipina + Filipina Finances January 6, 2021

January 6, 2021

Although we would all like to be sure we married the right Filipina before we married her, isn’t it fair to just say that at the pre-marriage stage the best we can do is to be reasonably sure?  In our case, from the time I winked at her from across the world, to the day we were pronounced husband and wife, was not even eight weeks.  Was I absolutely sure I had made the right choice, that this woman from Davao City, Philippines was going to be my woman for the rest of my life? 

 You might say that there was more that I didn’t know about her than what I did know about her.  What I wanted to know the most was if she was a Christian, since I considered that to be essential, in fact, the only must have, the only requirement.  I also knew that she was attractive to me, she was a hard worker, she loved her family, she seemed organized, she was prompt and she liked me!  All that doesn’t guarantee we will live happily ever after but since we have been married and are living here in America, there have been other indicators that I married the right Filipina.

Listen to this live podcast and I will explain how I know I married the right Filipina and I will also talk about being faithful in little is being faithful in much.

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