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120-4 Ways to Only Have Eyes for your Filipina

120-4 Ways to Only Have Eyes for your Filipina

May 31, 2021

You might have heard people say that Filipinas are jealous, more than American women.  That is likely true, because a Filipina isn’t comfortable with the man in her life making small talk with a stranger who happens to be a woman. At first this might seem like an unnecessary irritation, but the more I think about it, the more I think it is a good thing. This is a 4M rated channel-for Mature Marriage Minded Men.

Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea for help in a variety of ways for foreign men to have a good relationship, hopefully a great relationship, with a Filipina. After formulating my thoughts, I realized this applied best to the man who can spend time in the presence of his Filipina, so if you don’t have a Filipina in your life, these four points are something to remember as you consider being married to a Filipina.

Looking-The Filipina in your life can not know what is going on in your mind, but it is very important you train yourself to not dwell on other women, other beautiful Filipinas. If you are in the Philippines, you will find very attractive Filipinas all over the place and even if your Filipina girlfriend or wife is not present, it is important to be able to look away. Have you heard of the 3-second rule?

You can’t help notice sensational women out in the world, it wouldn’t be natural or even healthy to look away immediately. To be practical, admire her looks and leave it at that. I don’t know about you, but for me I can remember what someone looked like forty years ago and I only saw them for a few seconds. You don’t need to walk around with a blindfold on, as if you could, or be led by the hand by someone else, just don’t dwell on it. The longer you look, the more likely you will lust.

I know some people say “what does it hurt to look?”, and I won’t spend much time on that but will say this-If you are going to commit to a Filipina or already have, if she isn’t aware that you are completely into her, she will eventually sense that you are not fully ready to commit to her, and then you will have to explain to her one day why you were staring at someone else.

It is only natural to notice of course, the key is to keep it very short. You know why you’re looking, but she won’t quite understand. She wants to be the only one you have eyes for. She will feel your relationship is secure if she doesn’t notice you being “interested” in another woman.  Here are some other ways she notices........

119 What Stresses Out Your Filipina? Make Sure it Isn’t You

119 What Stresses Out Your Filipina? Make Sure it Isn’t You

May 21, 2021

As a husband to a Filipina that I petitioned to come to America, I have been concerned that she is able to adjust well to leaving the Philippines and moving so far away from her family and friends. Some things she will get better at adapting to such as the weather, not being with her family in person, hearing English all the time and having to be on time to her scheduled appointments. However, there will be other things that come up that cause her stress, that she couldn’t have planned.

This video will be about knowing the things that cause stress in her life, what drains her physical and emotional energy, what she deals with that she didn’t anticipate.  Please subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea because I want to help foreign men consider dating and marrying a Filipina, and offer what I have learned in being married for six years.  Share the videos with anyone interested in a Filipina wife and as always, your comments are welcomed. What I say works with any woman who isn’t a feminist.

I wasn’t planning on saying this but I decided to, and that is to do all you can to make sure that you are not responsible for causing stress to your Filipina.  You and I are going to cause some stress simply by virtue of being human, but I assume you want to make amends quickly and try to learn from past experiences. I’m not referring to the expected disagreements and doing some things that irritate each other now and then. What I am referring to is that I must be sure not to be the cause of continued vexation to her and either don’t know it bothers her or don’t care. What is the harm in asking her if there is something you do that irritates her?

You will need to adjust to each other but I don’t think that means that neither of you care what kind of impression you make and what kind of impact you have on each other. My wife knows that I am more verbal but that doesn’t mean that I have to hit her with a barrage of comments as soon as she comes home from work. I might be more talkative to someone else than to her and she would appreciate that! I am always working on my patience, and that’s a requirement for a lasting marriage. Asking her to be in videos causes her stress.

Our different personalities can be a cause of stress if one is more laid back the other is more intense. Most of the time, there is probably a big difference between the personality of the husband and the wife. I am definitely more intense and that can scare my wife, who is calmer and milder. I want results now or yesterday; she is more deliberate. You don’t want your sexual differences to exasperate each other. It comes down to communicating to make sure things are okay.

It may be that the pace of life, such as it is in America, will be stressful to her. That is not to say that she didn’t have responsibility and work hard in the Philippines, only that here, it is on a regular, uninterrupted schedule, and workers need to show up on time, all the time. That might be a little different than what she experienced back home. Here we work and try to save and she might have a little trouble adjusting to what sometimes we call “the grind”, working day after day, seemingly just to keep our heads above water.

We have all kinds of bills considering internet, cable, garbage, water, phone, electricity, heat, a lot of taxes, and it can feel like we are working simply to be able to pay for those things. This could prove frustrating for her.  In our case, my wife is very ambitious and has excellent energy but I think she needs me to support her as much as I can with allowing her to buy things for herself with her hard-earned money.  I compliment her as much as I can because at work, she might not hear a lot of good things. I allow her the space she needs to communicate with her family and enjoy joining in myself.

Listen to the podcast for help with what your Filipina wife may be going through in the early years of your marriage.

118 A High Bar Set for Suitors of Charlize Theron

118 A High Bar Set for Suitors of Charlize Theron

May 20, 2021

Today I will talk once again about not being too picky and what’s wrong with the world that there are so many single adults. I want to make marriage great again, it’s the right thing to do and more people need to be doing it! Whether you want to marry someone where you are or explore love overseas, you must not be overly picky. If you want to marry a straight woman with conservative values, you might not find her if you stay where you are, you may have to go where you’re wanted-somewhere else-but it would be worth it. I did, now I live the good life but that doesn’t happen overnight, on Casting Beyond The Sea, I care about higher Fil-West education. I will link the article from

Charlize Theron is one of the hottest Hollywood actresses working right now. With her latest Netflix hit The Old Guard, plus some other big movies on the horizon, she has her career down pat. Though in her personal life, Theron recently admitted she hasn’t dated anyone for over five years, but also said part of that is because she sets a high bar for any potential suitors coming her way.

Listen to the Podcast and I will tell you why I think she could be making a big mistake.


117 Covid Doesn’t Need to Prevent You From Finding Love Beyond The Sea

117 Covid Doesn’t Need to Prevent You From Finding Love Beyond The Sea

May 17, 2021

If you are interested in marrying overseas, like the Philippines, and need to meet someone face to face, you are not able to go to the Philippines at this time. At first this looks like a detriment to even bothering to get started but it doesn’t have to be that way. I’d like to think this is a thinking man’s channel for finding a wife abroad and strengthening that relationship through marriage. Subscribe to Casting Beyond The Sea for podcasts that will go deep inside the reality of marriage to a Filipina or any woman. Women are the same everywhere, they want a strong, wise and caring man to marry them. I want to show you how and make marriage great again. Now, something to think about.

If you haven’t started searching for a wife overseas yet, so what if you can’t travel to the Philippines right now or maybe not even for the rest of 2021? You’ll need time to get to know someone overseas and a webcam is not a bad way to do it. When I joined Christian Filipina on March 13 of 2015, my first communication with my wife was five days later, and that probably doesn’t include my original wink at her to let her know I was interested. We got married in the Philippines already in May of that year.

However, not being immediately able to dash to the Philippines to meet someone is an opportunity to identify the right woman to invest your life into, if you take advantage of the time and make the most of it. I will talk about some ways in today's podcast here on Casting Beyond The Sea.

116 Love Beyond The Sea Hype or Hope?

116 Love Beyond The Sea Hype or Hope?

May 10, 2021

My YouTube channel, Love Beyond The Sea has been around for over three years. You might not know it by the subscriber count. Frankly, I thought it would be higher by now, and of course, have to ask myself why that is. With so many people complaining good wives are a fairy tale, if you haven’t subscribed, why don’t you subscribe and find out what this is all about.

I have a message to spread-I want to make marriage great again. One thing I thought about was maybe guys think this is hype and it isn’t going to work for them. Others might think that I am giving them hope that in the darkness of the present dating climate, that men who really want a wife and know they need one, can do like I did, and find a wife overseas. I don’t care where you find one, I just want you to find one. I also like to emphasize that your time and opportunities are slipping away. That is just reality. Since I am married, I live in reality.

Listen to how I think men should think about my YouTube channel here on Casting Beyond The Sea.

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